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Hello Blog,
I haven’t updated in a while. Many things have been happening and I’m learning to let go. I try to spend most of my time on studying and other times just sleeping, ignoring the world. I feel quite down lately and I miss you blog. I want to say some things.
I like being alone, the silence and the imaginations it brings. But you know what? My biggest fear is loneliness, ironically. I believe it, face book says it. Even my mom says it. No one wants to be alone, come on. I don’t know how many people feel like me but I feel suffocated most of the time. Especially away from people that actually care for me. I feel like there’s no one to turn to but myself. Like I’m all I can count on at the end of the day. It’s not like I can’t survive on my own, but it’s just, sometimes it gets lonely, real lonely.
Every single day, I joke around, laughing and thinking positive of everything. I fool around a lot because there’s no point being depressed. And I think, people expect me to always be happy and stupid. I’ve realised somethings lately. I let a lot of people take advantage of me and I don’t even mind it. They do it because I let them. Sometimes I wonder If I’ll ever get a sincere thank you from anyone someday for whatever I’ve done for them. For everything I’ve done, I did them whole-heartedly, and willingly because I want to. If I don’t want to, I just don’t, as simple as that. I’m very nice to people I care for and those mostly are the ones that hurts me the most.
It’s kind of sad to realise how lost I feel sometimes and there’s no one to blame but myself. I let people take me for granted and I stupidly let them do whatever they want. I’m a happy person, I’d rather let people win than see them disappointed or mad. My big big mistake. We can’t always be nice. I ‘ve realised why there are such words like ‘selfish’. It’s because, we all are, in one way or another. I’m letting people take me for granted sometimes knowingly because I just don’t want anything to mess up my day. But you know what, doing that makes it worse. I have this selfless urge to follow peoples’ wants. And some people actually expect me to do it. It’s like, because I’m being oh so cheerful everyday, goofing around, they find it hard to accept me seriously with some form of respect. I can’t stand it but you know what no one gives a damn. And that’s why I’m blaming myself for it.
No one really takes in account of what I want because I never say it. Even if I did, I’m left in ignorance, so I tend to just keep quiet and go with the flow. Wrong again. I’m getting tired of writing this emotional outbreak letter to myself to remind me of what kind of loser I’m becoming for complaining so much.
Life’s like this pansy, it has always been, accept it. I will and I am, accepting it as it is. But sometimes, just sometimes, I want to be certain of what I mean to people and get respect in return. I’m talking about finding people that’ll get me. Who’d do the same for me as I do for them. Who don’t make fun of me and take in account of what I want. Who’d say thank you sincerely and people who knows when I’m not myself sometimes and feels like the world is crushing under my feet. I just want to meet people who tell me. "it's okay to be sad, you don't always have to be happy."
I just don’t want to end up alone forever, I want to meet somebody who makes me feel alive again. Somebody who’ll remind me that I’m worth fighting for and that I don’t have to loose hope in everything. Somebody who’ll join my quest to discover the beauty of life in the simplest ways, defining every little moment and cherishing them.
I think I should stop now, I can go on forever though, I’m a word person. I’m bullshitting here and tomorrow, I’m going to be goofy again. I want to grow out of this phase where I’m stuck wondering why people wouldn’t do the same for me, after all I’ve done for them. It’s kind of sad, but I got to live with, life’s like that. Always have, always will.
Good night bittersweet world,
I feel so lost.
Till Then,
Pansy(:
jotted down by pikaidiota- on 8:32 AM